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Creating Sustainable Caregiving

Creating Sustainable Caregiving

Theresa Willbanks talks to me about how we can create sustainable caregiving.

Creating sustainable caregiving will be something more of us will have to know as our population ages. Caring for another person, especially a parent, can feel like navigating an unpredictable, wild river.

How do we determine when it’s no longer safe for Mom or Dad to live alone? When do we step in to help manage finances and or medications? How do we get our loved ones to stop driving and continue to allow them their independence? These questions demonstrate concern for our parent’s safety and can be juxtaposed against our parent’s fiercely held desire for independence. In addition to being emotionally charged, the answers have enormous ramifications for us as family caregivers.

Caregiving is sustainable when you are realistic. Know your options, have a plan, and are willing to adjust that plan as many times as needed. In this episode, I talk to Theresa Willbanks about these issues and how she managed them.

If you want to learn more about Theresa, her book, and the services she offers to caregivers, please follow this link to her website. https://www.sustainablecaregiving.com

Moms Uncharted Path Into Dementia

Moms Uncharted Path Into Dementia

Every caregiver has their own unique story about how they learned a loved one had dementia. Carolyn Birrell used her experiences with her Mom to write a book. Walking With Fay – My Moms’ Uncharted Decline Into Dementia, released in time for Mother’s Day 2022, is a heartwarming story. It’s a story of a mother and daughter as they navigate the twists and turns along the path into dementia.

How do you stop someone who lives in a different state from driving down the wrong side of the road? What do you do when Mom only pays specific bills and not others? Navigating these and other dementia-related challenges are situations more and more of us will face.

In this episode, I talk to Carolyn about how she dealt with these challenges. Many of her Moms dementia-related behaviors presented in unique ways. This chat is a brave and honest glimpse into a journey of dementia, with acknowledgment of lessons learned from one being providing care for another.

You’ll enjoy the stories about Fay, feel less alone and get some tips on how to handle your journey.

Find Carolyn & her book here

 

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Caring For a Caregiving Spouse (feat. the hubby!)

Caring For a Caregiving Spouse (feat. the hubby!)

Caring for a caregiving spouse is not a topic I’ve discussed on this show. Not directly. I was pleasantly surprised when my hubby told me he had an idea for an episode. To be fair, I don’t need someone to feed me ideas, but I listened. You’ll be glad I did because his idea was gold.

My Mom died at the start of the pandemic, and life kind of went on the way it was unfolding back in March of 2020. We haven’t had a lot of conversations about our feelings, but that changes with this episode.

Today I chatted with the other half, the behind-the-scenes guy, about his relationship with my Mom how he felt about her disease, and how he saw his role in her care. It’s an interesting and informative conversation that I’m sure you’ll enjoy. It’s my goal to share more of our story while bringing you actionable tips.

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Using Mindfulness to Reduce Frustrations

Using Mindfulness to Reduce Frustrations

Finding ways to reduce caregivers’ frustrations is a worthy goal that may be helped by mindfulness.

Regular listeners likely know that I discovered the benefit very late in my caregiving journey. Thankfully, it still helps me today which is why we’re revisiting the topic. Being frustrated happens for many reasons. Understanding the reasons and how we can reduce them can serve us well in our daily lives.

But, caregivers are faced with a very high level of frustration triggers. How can we use mindfulness practices to reduce these frustrations is the topic of today’s conversation. I talk to Sel Gaston of the Find Your Daily Calm podcast. His family is also caring for a loved one with dementia. You’ll find it interesting how both hosts learn from each other in this conversation.

I’m confident you’ll take away a couple of tips that will help you avoid some of the bigger frustrations that caregivers face daily.

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Conversations To Remember

Conversations To Remember

Connectedness is important for good brain health.

Have you ever had a conversation that lasted a long time but didn’t feel as if it did? Perhaps a chat with a loved one that made you feel seen, heard, special – alive? Conversations can be mood elevators as well as help maintain good cognitive health. We’ve all lived through a time that forced us to rethink how we stay in touch with other people. While many are excited to return to “normal” the pandemic did give us new tools for helping those who need more connections than they currently have.

Conversations to Remember is a volunteer organization started by 16-year-old Aaron. Its mission is to connect high school and college students with residents in assisted living communities to combat the epidemic of loneliness. Putting a smile on the faces of seniors, including those experiencing cognitive decline, creates a bridge between seniors and youth.

I talk to Aarons’s Mom, Eve about the organization and how it’s turned into a family affair.

Conversations To Remember

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Add a Gleam in Their Eye

Add a Gleam in Their Eye

Gleam In Your Eye
Add a gleam in their eyes by providing tools for interacting that are fun and cognitively appropriate.

How do you add a gleam in their eye? Simple, by hearing what this caregiver turned support provider has created. My guest Marie Vaudry is a sandwich generation caregiver who has found a way to make visits easier with curated activities.

The Gleam in Your Eye boxes contain games that facilitate discussions, make visits more pleasant, allow you the opportunity to laugh together, and properly stimulate the person with dementia (such as Alzheimer’s). Are you reluctant to visit your loved one because you don’t know what to say and find that time moves slowly when you do visit? Bring this activity box with you as a gift on your next visit. Do you live far away from them and feel guilty for not being able to visit more often? Receiving this activity box will entertain them and be a topic of discussion when you call them.

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Make Grandma Smile

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Show Me The Money! (Parents Finances)

Show Me The Money! (Parents Finances)

Cameron Huddleston
Cameron discusses having essential financial conversations with our parents.

Show me the money is about having essential conversations with your parents about their finances. Talking to your parents about their financial matters isn’t easy territory; you need to know what to say & what not to say. My guest, Cameron Huddleston is an award-winning, financial journalist. Despite her comfort with financial conversations and her Moms openness on the subject, trouble loomed. They didn’t discuss the importance of long-term-care insurance early enough for her Mom.

In this episode, Cameron will give us tips for talking with our siblings (something I could have used)about your parents’ finances. She also discusses ways to tackle conversations about estate planning, documents, long-term-care, and when it’s time to move. Our conversation is a taste of what you’ll get in her new book, “Mom and Dad we need to talk”. This book gives you advice on every step plus exercises to help you get comfortable.

Mom and Dad, We Need to Talk is the essential guide for having productive financial conversations with your parents that lead to meaningful action. This podcast episode helps you get started too.

Camerons’ Website 

Related Episode:

Medicare Demystified

Dementia & Your Money

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Jen Spills the Tea

Jen Spills the Tea

Welcome to episode #222. I, Jen, can’t believe I’ve been podcasting for four years. I still feel like a newbie. This episode is a little bit of my story, including what it was like losing my Mom during the pandemic. I also talk about what I’ve learned from doing this show, and, a little bit of behind the scenes into how the show gets made.

When Jen started out on her podcasting journey she planned on sharing all she knew. That didn’t last long. After tapping into her less than a deep well of knowledge, Jen branched out & spoke to local people in the caregiving niche. It didn’t take long to have to venture further out and talk to people worldwide!

Jen will be bringing more of her personal stories in season 5 which starts May 2022!

 

More from Jen:

My Journey With Family Alzheimer’s & Memory Loss

Special Episode – What Do You Remember?

Visiting With Mom (Jen’s Journey)

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Aging Cause & Cure

Aging Cause & Cure

Could there truly be a cause & cure for aging?  Could aging have a cure? Besides dying young? As a naturally curious person, I was intrigued by this possibility. I was even more intrigued when I realized I’d be talking about someone who is a nuclear physicist AND a biblical scholar.

Aging: Cause and Cure reveals two newly discovered vitamins that are no longer naturally available today. Like all of the previously known vitamins, they appear to be necessary for optimal health and well-being. Ongoing research continues to demonstrate the extreme importance of daily supplementation of these vitamins in the human diet.

Whether you believe there is a potential cure for aging or not, tune in to this fascinating conversation. Making you think about life in a new way is also good for your brain!

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Related Episode:

Stop Acting Your Age! Feel Years Younger!

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What Every Trustee & Beneficiary Needs to Know

What Every Trustee & Beneficiary Needs to Know

Absolute Trust Counsel on Trustee
There are many things a trustee needs to know…

My sister and I were both a trustee of our parents’ estate. Because there are a lot of details neither of us was aware needed handling, it was a good thing for us. There are a number of complicated steps required by law when administering a trust & that’s what we’re discussing on the show.

You may be saying, “But, doesn’t having a trust avoid the legal work associated with a death?” Unfortunately not.

When someone dies, the process is very nearly the same whether there is a trust or probate. The difference between trust administration and probate is that the trust administration is done privately, while probate is handled publicly in court, and usually, probate is much more expensive. In a probate, the executor is required to use specific form documents and to get a judge’s permission to act, but the basic steps that must be covered in probate are very similar to the steps covered in a trust administration.

If you are the sole trustee as well as one of several beneficiaries, there are many steps you need to understand. Kirsten of the Absolute Trust Counsel is here to walk us through the most important things to know.

Related Episodes:

Allowing for A Natural Death – Alzheimer’s Living Will

Medicare Demystified

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